Getting a divorce in Thousand Oaks, California, contact Hoffer Family Law Firm. We can outline the steps to take to begin protecting yourself and your interests. Divorces are almost always messy because of feelings of bitterness, resentment, and regret. I can’t do much about that, but I can help you protect yourself and make the process go as smoothly as possible. 

At Hoffer Family Law Firm, our family lawyers are committed to your best interests and the interests of your children, if any. If you are thinking of ending your marriage, contact our Thousand Oaks divorce lawyers today for a consultation to learn what you should be thinking about in order to protect yourself in the future.

Divorce in Thousand Oaks CA

To start a divorce in Thousand Oaks or anywhere in California, three specific documents must be filed:

  1. The Petition, known as Form No. FL-100;
  2. The Summons, known as Form No FL-110; and
  3. The proof of service of summons, known as Form No. FL-115. 

If you have children under the age of 18, you should also file a Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) form known as Form No. FL-105/GC-120. If divorcing in Thousand Oaks, these forms must be filed with the family law court at:

The Superior Court of California
County of Ventura
800 South Victoria Avenue
Ventura, CA 93009

Before you file for divorce, you must satisfy the residency requirements, which simply means you:

  • must be a resident of California for six months; and
  • must have lived in Ventura County for the three months before filing for divorce.

Steps to Take to Prepare for the End of a Marriage

California is a no-fault divorce state. This means you don’t have to prove anything to request the dissolution of your marriage – you just need to state that there are irreparable differences that can’t be solved. In other words, if you don’t want to be married anymore, you don’t have. That doesn’t mean the other spouse will not do whatever to prevent it, prolong it, or otherwise make life difficult for you.

With that in mind, there are a few things to do to prepare for a Thousand Oaks Divorce. The below is not each and every step, but it gets you started.


  1. Make a list of all bank accounts, retirement accounts, 401K accounts, and credit cards and note the current balances and/or keep statements together.
  2. Get at least six months’ worth of mortgage statements and payment statements.
  3. Make a list of login information to all accounts, including any joint accounts. 
  4. Make a list of all your assets and obtain appraisals.
  5. Open a new checking account in your name only to place money in it for living expenses and emergencies.
  6. Gather and make copies of important documents, like:
  • marriage certificate
  • titles to things like vehicles
  • any license like professional licenses
  • any prenuptial or post-nuptial agreement
  • executed wills
  • trust documents
  • other estate planning documents
  • insurance policies (e.g., life insurance, health insurance, homeowner’s or renter’s insurance)
  • tax return information for the last three years
  • any other important document.

Create a list of all monthly bills. Get a copy of your credit report. Take pictures of the rooms and items in your home. Document information on your children, like school information, class schedule, and after-school activities. Obtain an experienced Thousand Oaks divorce attorney.

This information will help make the process of dealing with the following divorce issues a bit more manageable at the time of divorce, like:

  • Property and debt division;
  • Child custody and visitation;
  • Child support; and
  • Spousal support.

Speak with a Thousand Oaks Divorce Attorney

If you are thinking about a divorce in Thousand Oaks, we can discuss it with you and offer legal advice to help you better understand what a divorce may mean in your unique situation. Contact a Thousand Oaks divorce lawyer at our firm today to schedule a consultation. 

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As you know, we are now living in uncertain times.  Our society has shifted in ways that were completely unexpected 3-6 months ago.   As a result, our priorities and actions need to shift as well.  Remember, we cannot control the wind, but we can always adjust our sails.   The Courts here in Southern California are closed for the foreseeable future.  The Los Angeles County courts are taking filings and are hearing emergency matters.  The Ventura County Courts are hearing emergency matters but are not taking filings at all.   Currently, both court systems are scheduled to re-open in mid-May; however, given the current state of affairs, it is likely that the closures will be extended. 

So, how do we adjust our sails?   We set you up for success for when the Courts re-open, your case will be ready to go. 

1.  Video Consultations:  All you need is a phone, an iPad, or a computer with a webcam and a microphone and we can have a video consultation.    Please click here to schedule. 

2. For Divorce Cases:   For existing cases in Ventura County, we can prepare your disclosures, create a discovery plan and ready your case for when the court opens again.  For Los Angeles County, we can file your Petition and related documents, prepare your disclosures, create a discovery plan and ready your case for when the court opens again. 

My Advice to you! 

3. Be physically and emotionally healthy!   There is a lot of humor circulating about how people are gaining weight and getting drunk during this period.   Don’t give in to that.  This is the time to take stock and improve on those things you always wanted.  It means reading that book you wanted to read.  It means taking that online course you always meant to take.  It means gaining that skill that you didn’t have time for.   It also means not letting your divorce case sit unattended.  There is always work to be done.  Let us handle it for you. Take this period of time to be proactive! 

  Thanks for taking the time to drop by. 

Jeffrey L. Hoffer

Certified Family Law Specialist – located in Agoura Hills, CA.